Maybe you are new on the single scene, maybe you have been single for a long time – either way you know one thing and that is that you don’t want to be single. Don’t worry, you are not alone, many people do not want to be single, being alone can be very lonely and you have no one to share your life with. Here are some ways that you can make yourself more attractive to people – some of these ideas may be new to you:
• There is a difference between being single and looking for someone and being desperate. Just know in the back of your mind that there is someone out there who is right for you, and you will meet them one day.
In the meantime, coming across as desperate is simply not attractive. You need to show interest in people that you find attractive, but don’t smother them. Respect personal boundaries and make small conversation. If you end up getting a person’s phone number don’t call them immediately. Instead wait up to a week to call and set up a time to meet for coffee.
• Meeting for coffee does not always mean that there is going to be a relationship that follows. Take each meeting one at a time and enjoy that person’s company. If something more starts to develop, then follow up with it, but don’t have expectations from the start.
Think of these meetings as a way to get to know the person, let them tell make it known to you that they are interested and then go from there. There really is no big rush when it comes to developing a relationship and if you are not putting on the pressure, this person will feel more comfortable around you.
• Keep yourself in good shape. Eat healthy, work out regularly and don’t smoke. By showing that you care about yourself and your own body and health, people will instantly find you more attractive.